Years in review 2013, 2014, and 2015
2013

Home/Church life: Our Church (New Day Ministries) has walked with us during our recovery. ALANON has helped me a lot. I have worked as a service representative and attended several district and regional meetings. Tim and I are learning to work our separate programs and our marriage in recovery. Tim celebrated 2 years clean and sober. Tim and I ministered to addicts that were in detox facilities. Tim is speaking at church again. Friends at church are helping with ministry with addicts in detox facilities (Lovelady center and Cheha Mental Health Center).

Work: I left my Job at the nursing home after 1 year. I learned so much about end of life care, different family dynamics, Isolation and the choices that lead people into a life of loneliness. I watched at a distance as people came and went. Some had families still in contact for different reasons. Some was visited often by family that had a desire to care for them but not the ability. I experienced people that were conflicted about how they should care for someone that was great to them in their life. Other conflicts were the opposite; how do you care for someone that did not care for you and shirked their responsibilities toward you. I watched as people struggled with these very real issues. I watched residence go through feelings of being thrown away, other who was happy to be cared for in a better situation than they came from. and yet others still wanted to go home (where ever that was) every day even when their residence and people were long gone. I know that God placed me there to show me about life and how my choices today affect my life and the life of those I have love, relationships, and responsibility for. I realized that the Lord is working on me to not involve myself into others business but in a management job it is my responsibility to do so. I felt if I was going to grow in the direction I felt the Lord I was leading me then I needed to be completely out of the managerial world. I started work at Shelby in Nov. 2013 as a medical surgical floor nurse at the end of the year.

My sister JoAnn, Krystal and me. Joann's can only babble now. We were trying to get her to smile.
Personal: I started developing friendships with ladies at church. I learned from going to recovery meetings and counseling that I can resolve the conflicts and bad choices of yesteryear. I can make amends as the Lord places them before me. 2013 was still a time of change, discovery and self improvement with Holy Spirits guidance.

Children/Grandchildren: Our Children are amazing. They actually don't need me any more. That was a hard pill to swallow. However, They are growing in the way of the Lord and very capable of taking care of themselves. Being a grandparent has fulfilled the lost of children. God is so good in His infinite wisdom he gives us Grandchildren: Lawson, Bailey, and Braylen are growing. I was privileged to attend their school and day care programs. Lawson is playing baseball and on the honor roll at school. Bailey is learning dance at knoll wood and had her first dance recital. Girl events are new experiences for us it was funny watching and learning about bringing flower to give to the dancers afterward. Braylen is attending Mother's day out and is excited about her mom expecting her brother in April of 2014. Braylen has named her brother everything from "Pine cone" to "Banana". So cute.
2014
Home/Church life: Friends at church went with us to Joyce Meyers conference at the BJCC. Which lead to the ladies at church planning and attend a Love Conference in St Louis, Missouri. We had a great time in the Lord together. Tim is beginning to have more opportunities to speak and teach the bible at church. We still attend recovery meetings and reach out to help addicts and families of addicts.
Children/Grandchildren: Grandchildren are absolutely the gift of life here on earth! Mickey& Sandy and Allen & Jennifer are wonderful parents. They are leading their family by God's Path. They are active in their church family. I am so very proud of how they run their homes.
Lawson turned 10 Sept 27th and continued to develop his Baseball skills. Bailey turned 7 Nov 16th and loves to dance. Braylen turned 4 years old April 13th and we welcomed Judson Allen Green into the world on April 25th. I was able to attend Grandparents day breakfast with Lawson and Bailey at Fayetteville. Several programs at school and daycare this year. God is wonderful to allow us to be in their lives.
Work life is hard. I have never been drawn to floor nursing because it is a lot of running and no time to spend with the patients and families. However, even though it was physically taxing it was just what I needed in order to grow mentally and spiritually. I worked 3-12 hour day shifts a week and every 3rd weekend. This allowed me time to continue to work on myself. I learned how to take it easy on myself. I turned loose of other's problems and the need to be "in the know" about other's lives. I worked almost a year at Shelby and then felt lead in the direction of some other type nursing. I applied for mental health, home health, hospice, and dialysis. I originally applied to cancer center but declined the interview due to my personal conflicts with the concept of chemotherapy. I interviewed for the others and was offered a job at dialysis and hospice. After much prayer and reflection of my personal and spiritual goals in life I decide on hospice care. I started this job in December. I was so scared at the thought of going into strangers homes in the middle of the night but I was comforted by Joyce Meyers' saying "Just do it afraid". I know that this is the career path that God has called me to. I am definitely caring for people in their own homes now. I just love how God walks us through the stages of life and how much stronger we grow when I am walking on His path for my life and not my own. Tim was diagnosed with diabetes type 2. Many changes to come.
Personal: I started going to the hair salon, nail salon, and massage therapy and focused a little more on self care. I am at my heaviest weight ever at 212#. Since I am still searching for health and fitness. I started Dr Phil's 20/20 diet. bought the book, downloaded the app. cleaned out the cabinets and made space for my healthy food because Tim does not choose to change his way of eating. I started volunteering at Resources for Women, a place girls can go when they find themself pregnant and are in a valley of decisions. I learned to do pregnancy sonar grams for detection of fetus and heart beat. Due to a change at the center we were never enacted into service, however.
2015
Home/Church Tim and I are still involved in our church and community activities. We went on our anniversary cruise in March and it was crazy. Spring break for a lot of colleges and I think all of them were on our cruise. We found out we were invisible. It was amazing. The college kids would walk through us, step on us, break line in front of us, nudge us out of the hot tub and the waiters ignored us because we were not drinking alcohol. It was quite the revelation. We had a good time with it. But we decided that we might need to try a cruise line that caters to older adults next trip. Tim has been invited to several different church's to give his testimony of his recovery from addiction. We took a trip with Trish and Brian to Fort Walton Beach. Our friendship is developing with them. We are so blessed to have these friends. Ended the year with church Christmas party at Oak Grove Community center. Tim was called to be the interim pastor at Summer Hill Baptist Church in October.
Children/Grandchildren: Great year with the Kiddos.
Mickey and Sandy are continuing to minister at Marble City. Sandy is working night shift at Russell Hospital. Allen and Jennifer invited all of us to go on a family trip to Walt Disney World in Orlando Fl. We had a great time and was able to use what we have learned the past few year in recovery how to cope and respect others and their boundaries as well as set healthy boundaries around our selves. We started off the week trying to do everything together and found that with such age span differences and different desired paces that we should do Disney on our own during the day and meet up together at the evening meal and share our experiences. This worked much better for us all. I think my best day was the day I kept the kids at the pool. Judson's first birthday this year, Braylen 5 and will be starting kindergarden at chelsea elementary this fall, Bailey is 8 and Lawson is 11 Lawson is pitching and playing 2nd base He started playing football as well. They moved into their newly remodeled home after tirelessly working on it this year. I made the grandchildren a Ancestry book of our family and gifted each of them a quilt that one of their grandmothers or great grand mothers pieced and quilted. I made a picture of each quilt for their book and wrote who made the quilt. I updated our ancestry in an online source and printed 4 generations. the link for our family tree is at
https://www.ancestry.com/family-tree/pt/RSVP.aspx?dat=ODU3ODcxNTQ7OzAzOWQ0ODU2LTAwMDYtMDAwMC0wMDAwLTAwMDAwMDAwMDAwMDsyMDIwMDExNjE3NDg1MDsx&mac=pvB1LDU7UKZSa3O5uPCLxw==
My Mother in Law, Ruth, decided this year she was going to sell her house and move. She approached Mickey and Sandy about her desire to sell to them if they wanted it. They did. She sold it to them and asked me to help her downsize from 4 bedroom home to a 2 bedroom apartment. She and I worked on this for a couple of months. She donated everything she did not want to the church for yard sale. She and I went shopping for furniture for her apartment. We moved her into her new apartment in July. Ruth health is declining and I have been taking her to her doctor appointments every month and shopping for her groceries.
Work: I love my job! Hospice triage/on call nurse. I say often I have the best job in the world. I have had some very busy weeks where I thought the nights and weekend would never end but every time I was needed when I got there and I was able to help. I know I am currently working within my calling.
Personal: I continued on my new way of eating Dr Phil 20/20 diet (yes even while in Disney). I lost 50# in total before the end of the year. My doctor is not in agreement with this way of eating because it is so restrictive (only can eat 20 foods). He however does not have any alternative for me except to eat in moderation and do exercise program. Not sure what I need to do. In December I tried Whole 30 in an attempt to eat correctly. I am still working on my recovery. Due to my evening work schedule every other week I am missing a lot of alanon meetings.
in November I had to fly to South Dakota due to my sister having a brain bleed. She passed away after a week. I was glad I made the trip to be with my niece, Krystal. It was a difficult time for us all.